RE|ENGAGE MARRIAGE MINISTRY
A safe place for couples to reconnect
Would you rate your marriage as a 2 or a 10?
No matter how you rate your marriage, you are not alone. Re|engage is for marriages between one man and one woman and for previously married couples who are separated or divorced but might consider reconciling.
Whether your marriage is in crisis or you are looking to take your marriage from good to great, re|engage is a safe place for couples to reconnect. Re|engage will offer hope and encouragement to marriages by helping couples move toward oneness through stories of grace, teaching and small groups.
Ready to invest in your marriage?
Classes Beginning September 28th, 2025
Sunday Nights: 6:30pm - 8:00pm
Invest daily with your spouse and connect weekly with a small group. Our prayer is that wherever your marriage is today, it will become stronger through participating in re|engage.
For every marriage in every season
Re|Engage is a marriage ministry for all married couples. Whether your marriage is in crisis or you are looking to take your marriage from good to great, Re|Engage is a safe place for couples to reconnect through stories of grace, teaching, and small groups.
FAQ
Have questions? We have the answers!
When and where does Re|Engage meet?
We meet Sunday nights from 6:30-8:00pm
What is the origin of Re|Engage?
The program was launched at Watermark Community Church in September 2008 and has since expanded to other churches.
What does a typical night at Re|Engage look like?
You and your spouse go over the lesson together during the week. Then meet with your small group for discussion on Sunday's 6:30-7:30pm.
Will I be asked a lot of personal questions at Re|Engage?
There is no personal sharing during the large group meeting. Though we encourage you to remain active in group discussion, any personal sharing during the small group meetings is voluntary.
How do I know that what I share at Re|Engage will be kept confidential?
We believe that Scripture calls us to refrain from gossip, and we ask all participants and facilitators to adhere to the guideline that what is discussed in the group stays in the group. Re|engage facilitators are encouraged to operate under the direction of God’s Word in handling the information shared in the group and have committed to not share information about others outside the group except in the event of the threat of physical, emotional or spiritual injury, and then to be dealt with under the guidance of ALIVE staff.
Can I be honest with people about what is going on in our marriage?
Our prayer is that you will feel safe to share within your small group. We find that the more authentic and transparent couples can be with others, the more they find hope and healing within their marriage.
Is Re|Engage marriage counseling?
No. Re|engage is not marriage counseling and the leaders are facilitators, not counselors. They are also growing in their own marriages. Everyone in the group is on the journey to oneness in marriage. We believe that openness and transparency in a small group setting using a Biblically-based curriculum is where God works to grow and resurrect marriages.
Is childcare provided?
Yes, we do provide care for children 6 weeks to 12 years old. They can be dropped off at the Children’s Wing before re|engage large group and must be picked up by 8:00 pm.
Can I just come and visit, or do I have to commit to something?
Until Small Groups begin the study, there is no commitment necessary. Your first few nights you will join us at 6:30 PM for a large group time of teaching or a testimony, and we will have an open group discussion.
How much time each week outside of the meeting is required to be a part of Re|Engage?
Completion of the homework will take approximately 30-45 minutes each week. The time required will vary, but it is designed for minimal time commitment.
What commitment do I have to make?
Once the small group launches, working through the re|engage curriculum will require a 14 to 15 week commitment. This is the time in which the group is working through the curriculum together. Cost for participating in a closed group is $50 per couple. Childcare is provided free of charge.
I don't know if I will have a marrige by the end of the month, is Re|Engage a good place for us?
Yes. While the outcome is based on the work each individual couple is willing to do to save their marriage, the platform provides a safe place to focus on what a healthy marriage should look like, and it provides some tools to help grow toward this goal.
My marriage is doing well. Is Re|Engage for us?
Yes. Re|engage is the perfect opportunity to make a good marriage great. Our prayer is that wherever your marriage is today, it will become stronger through participating in re|engage.
We don't link spending time with each other anymore. Will we have to interact together?
While you will be in a small group together, each of you will be sharing about what you learn personally each week. However, there are some exercises that may require you to interact with each other throughout the process.
I have no hope anymore. Is this a place where we can find hope?
Our prayer is that you will find hope that can come through allowing God to do a mighty work within your marriage.
We have only been married for 6 months. Can we still come?
Yes. In fact, participating in re|engage at this stage in your marriage is a great idea! The program will provide a strong foundation for your marriage.
We are thinking about getting married. Is this ministry for us?
We suggest you elect to focus on marriage preparation through pre-marital mentoring or premarital counseling. If you would like more information on pre-marital preparation available through ALIVE, please email ssimmons@alivewesleyan.com.
What if my spouse can't/won't attend on Re|Engage nights?
The large group teaching time is a great place for everyone. The small groups require both spouses to be most effective. If your spouse can’t attend right now, then maybe both of you can join when your schedule allows.